I thought all those people in my family died as a result of smoking but thanks to SheLion I now know they died from eating too much sole. (I'm series!) ;9/ And I am so relieved to learn that you and the people in your family are the center of the universe, and the criterion around which public policy should be woven.
Forgive us for not realizing this is all about you.
I'll forgive you this one time, but don't let it happen again. ;9]