When I read this comment, I thought someone had typed it as a perfect response to you. Alas, no. I can see now, with your further explanation of at least where you were going with your Scarpia analogy, but Im sorry, it is still inapt. It just doesnt really work.
Did you read what I wrote? (At 72 & 142). What I said really doesnt call for the response you gave to me at all.
Even were your comment directed at others who have been critical of the parents, this is a discussion forum. Given the facts of this case, this thread seems to me like a reasonable place to discuss parental responsibility.