One reason people are not using airline services is because they think they are being lied to. This includes Flights 800 and 587. How many people just on this forum know someone who saw something in the sky that evening in 1996?
A better bet is to get an instrument rating, and purchase or rent a ship for any cross country jaunts. Despite the much higher accident rate, at least your life is in your own hands when you've done your own pre-flight check and have the stick in front of you.