You and I can argue, trying to reason each other, we can find a compromise or we can agree to disagree - peacefully. No such thing with Palestinians. Sorry, another way of thinking. All our western highbrow attempts for peace are signs of weakness for them. The whole Palestinian refugee problem was created from the beginning to be a knife in the back of Israel. We can sympathize with their sorry life, but they were purposely left as pawns to sacrifice in Arab/Muslim war against infidels/Jews. For them, all people coming up with different compromise solutions are no more than useful idiots [not intended by me to be a personal attack against you :-)].
We can hardly comprehend lobotomy-robotizing of Palestinian kids into suicide bombers. They were intentionally programmed that way. I am horrified for them. That is a crime against humanity as it is. I can not relate at all to a mother blessing a son for a suicide mission, no more than I cant fathom any compassion to Andrea Yates.
We project on them OUR desire for peace. THEY dont want peace. They want victory. Even if some of us dont see them as our enemy, they do. It makes no difference what we say. Our argument is irrelevant. There is no difference in their eyes between me, you or anybody here on this forum with 180° opposite views. All Israeli, Americans are their enemies. They do call, prey, and plan for our distraction. We need the complete military victory and de-nazification before we can hope for them to understand a concept of peace the way we understand it.