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Kandahar comes out of the closet
The Times ^ | January 12, 2002 | Tim Reid

Posted on 01/15/2002 9:24:32 PM PST by CharismaticSB

Saturday, January 12, 2002

Kandahar comes out of the closet

from Tim Reid in Kandahar

Our correspondent sees the gay capital of South Asia throw off strictures of the Taleban

NOW that Taleban rule is over in Mullah Omar’s former southern stronghold, it is not only televisions, kites and razors which have begun to emerge.

Visible again, too, are men with their ashna, or beloveds: young boys they have groomed for sex.

Kandahar’s Pashtuns have been notorious for their homosexuality for centuries, particularly their fondness for naive young boys. Before the Taleban arrived in 1994, the streets were filled with teenagers and their sugar daddies, flaunting their relationship.

It is called the homosexual capital of south Asia. Such is the Pashtun obsession with sodomy — locals tell you that birds fly over the city using only one wing, the other covering their posterior — that the rape of young boys by warlords was one of the key factors in Mullah Omar mobilising the Taleban.

In the summer of 1994, a few months before the Taleban took control of the city, two commanders confronted each other over a young boy whom they both wanted to sodomise.

In the ensuing fight civilians were killed. Omar’s group freed the boy and appeals began flooding in for Omar to help in other disputes.

By November, Omar and his Taleban were Kandahar’s new rulers. Despite the Taleban disdain for women, and the bizarre penchant of many for eyeliner, Omar immediately suppressed homosexuality.

Men accused of sodomy faced the punishment of having a wall toppled on to them, usually resulting in death. In February 1998 three men sentenced to death for sodomy in Kandahar were taken to the base of a huge mud and brick wall, which was pushed over by tank. Two of them died, but one managed to survive.

“In the days of the Mujahidin, there were men with their ashna everywhere, at every corner, in shops, on the streets, in hotels: it was completely open, a part of life,” said Torjan, 38, one of the soldiers loyal to Kandahar’s new governor, Gul Agha Sherzai.

“But in the later Mujahidin years, more and more soldiers would take boys by force, and keep them for as long as they wished. But when the Taleban came, they were very strict about the ban. Of course, it still happened — the Taleban could not enter every house — but one could not see it.”

But for the first time since the Taleban fled, in the past three days, one can see the pairs returning: usually a heavily bearded man, seated next to, or walking with, a clean-shaven, fresh faced youth. There appears to be no shame or furtiveness about them, although when approached, they refuse to talk to a western journalist.

“They are just emerging again,” Torjan said. “The fighters too now have the boys in their barracks. This was brought to the attention of Gul Agha, who ordered the boys to be expelled, but it continues. The boys live with the fighters very openly. In a short time, and certainly within a year, it will be like pre-Taleban: they will be everywhere.”

This Pashtun tradition is even reflected in Pashtun poetry, odes written to the beauty and complexion of an ashna, but it is usually a terrible fate for the boys concerned. It is practised at all levels of Pashtun society, but for the poorer men, having an ashna can raise his status.

“When a man sees a boy he likes — the age they like is 15 or 16 — they will approach him in the street and start talking to him, offering him tea,” said Muhammad Shah, a shop owner. “Sometimes they go looking in the football stadium, or in the cinema (which has yet to reopen).

“He then starts to give him presents, hashish, or a watch, a ring, or even a motorbike. One of the most valued presents is a fighting pigeon, which can be worth up to $400 (£277). These boys are nearly always innocent, but such is the poverty here, they cannot refuse.”

Once the boy falls into the man’s clutches — nearly always men with a wife and family — he is marked for life, although the Kandaharis accept these relationships as part of their culture.

When driven around, ashna sit in the front passenger seat. The back seat is simply for his friends. Even the parents of the boys know in their hearts the nature of the relationship, but will tell people that their son is working for the man. They, like everyone else, will know this is a lie. “They say birds flew with both wings with the Taleban,” Muhammad said. “But not any more.”

Copyright 2002 Times Newspapers Ltd. This service is provided on Times Newspapers' standard terms and conditions. To inquire about a licence to reproduce material from The Times, visit the Syndication website.


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To: CharismaticSB
One of the signs of a provocateur is "hit and run" posting, i.e., the poster never responds to any of the comments. So the fact that you've now finally responded is a point in your favor.

However, if you are a legitimate but new member at Free Republic, you need to learn to post articles with their correct headlines, and follow the article with your comments and interpretations. If you feel compelled to editorialize in the headline, at least do so in brackets or parentheses after the true headline. Otherwise it is extremely misleading.

21 posted on 01/16/2002 9:49:23 AM PST by dpwiener
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To: CharismaticSB
See this is the kind of stuff that gets the fundamentalist Christian community, and the rest of the conservative community they usually associate with, in so much trouble. Who really cares who's boinking who and how in Afghanistan? It's a different country, on the otherside of the planet, and no reason for American tourists to ever go there. If it's really important to you that Afghanis know how evil homosexuality is talk to your church, and go over there on a mission (ie, make it legitimately your business). Or if you can't travel for whatever reason, find out who is doing a mission over there and contribute. Sexual practices of Afghanis in Afghanistan are not the American goverment's business, and shouldn't be. Regardless of your position on if our government can mandate that stuff for us you must aknowledge the borders of sovereignty. Which is their border unless they're trying to harm us. Buggering each other on the otherside of the planet is not harming America.
22 posted on 01/16/2002 9:59:43 AM PST by discostu
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To: CharismaticSB
You left out the 'O' in your FReepername.
23 posted on 01/16/2002 10:18:46 AM PST by headsonpikes
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To: evolved_rage
San Francisco will be a ghost town.

Sadly, it already is.


24 posted on 01/17/2002 12:05:16 AM PST by Bill Jones for GOV
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To: CharismaticSB
This is democratic hog wash. The democrats weren't UPSET when Bill Clinton was having cigar sex in the white house. So this propaganda is as silly as the democrats and there loose morals
25 posted on 01/17/2002 9:18:32 AM PST by TonyTheTigger
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To: CharismaticSB
Please after Bill Clinton and the way the democratic party stood behind him and his sexual perversion with cigars. Don't try to say all the sudden the democrats are standing for morals.
26 posted on 01/17/2002 9:23:11 AM PST by TonyTheTigger
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To: TonyTheTigger
post 25 and 26 were ment for Bill Jones
27 posted on 01/17/2002 9:25:22 AM PST by TonyTheTigger
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To: CharismaticSB
I don't really care that they bugger each other constantly.

Why do you?

28 posted on 01/17/2002 9:25:55 AM PST by Cogadh na Sith
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To: OWK
LOL!!!!

You rock!

29 posted on 01/17/2002 9:27:05 AM PST by Cogadh na Sith
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To: CharismaticSB
Are we fighting in Afghanistan to protect THESE customs??

No, we are fighting to root out terrorists and make them face justice.

We are not there fighting to kill homosexuals, or to ensure that women can show a bare ankle without being flogged.

30 posted on 01/17/2002 9:30:47 AM PST by He Rides A White Horse
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To: OWK
Not what you wanted to hear, huh?
31 posted on 01/17/2002 9:31:32 AM PST by AppyPappy
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To: CharismaticSB
IS BUSH SUPPORTING THE REEMERGENCE OF HOMOSEXUALITY IN AFGHANISTAN???

Gee, so I guess Bush should have decided to keep the Taliban in power so there would be no gays in Kandahar, our national security be damned. What a laugh...

32 posted on 01/17/2002 9:35:31 AM PST by dirtboy
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To: CharismaticSB
What is being done about this blatant abomination???

Not enough, obviously. Please catch the first flight to Kandahar and stop them.

33 posted on 01/17/2002 9:36:23 AM PST by dighton
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To: dirtboy
LOL
34 posted on 01/17/2002 11:10:29 AM PST by TonyTheTigger
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To: dighton
lol
35 posted on 01/17/2002 12:08:44 PM PST by TonyTheTigger
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