Also, I've never been robbed, assaulted, or threatened physically due to white bigotry, but a lot of whites have suffered that from blacks. In general, whites don't verbally assault blacks in public the way some blacks do it to some whites. A couple of times I had to tell the black person (they were strangers) that they'd gone way over the top and to stop acting that way.
Remember, though, my experiences are just about me personally- don't take that to mean that all blacks have it "made in the shade" on the race thing these days. We do still carry the effects of being slaves and legal second-class citizens for all but the last 35 years of our existence here.
Affirmative action hurts blacks too ---I have a couple of black friends who are extremely qualified in their jobs, have all the education and then some that the job required but had people assume they only got hired because of that. People saying things like "aren't you thankful for affirmative action" which really burned them because that wasn't how they got the job.