Are you saying your mother should have been able to abort you?
She could have offered you for adoption if she didn’t want you or your siblings. There are alternatives to the finality of abortion.
maybe she did not want to actually carry me the 9 months to give me away.
You don’t exactly offer a 6 week pregnancy up for adoption.
I think he was saying the opposite. His mother chose life and he and sibs were born an loved.
I’m sorry I said he when your FR handle is obviously she.
I’m shocked at the way your post was twisted by some on this thread.
Your mom acted out of love and did what she believed as right, following her path towards the light despite some hurdles. I would interpret her sharing her doubts with you as part of helping you understand about difficult choices and staying true to yourself. Also about the joys that can come from what appears to be misfortune. To think that her brave and resolute choice should have been hidden like a shameful secret is appalling.