You're very right about that and it contributes to the trend that it's hip to be a sexual pervert or at least to support sexual perversion.
But what is “sexual perversion?”
Seriously.
Today, at the same time we crush a general (Petreus) because he likes women and has an affair (example: https://abcnews.go.com/US/OTUS/generals-behaving-badly/story?id=17709524) we have the DoD giving people sex changes, housing to same sex couples, and when they screw around with multiple sexual partners at the same time and everyone knows, no one dares say anything. Military guys attending pride events wearing leather straps, having multiple sexual partners at the same time is OK, but if you like women that’s questionable.
Our societies definition of perversion and application of certain rules (like conduct unbecoming in the DoD) is highly dependent on what group we’re talking about.