Wow. No standards for men for women?
IOW, women have to take what they get and submit?
No wonder feminism has gotten such foothold.
Men can live in their fantasy world of thinking they know what women really want but treating her like a commodity is NOT it.
She’s not an animal for your use and abusing her is not the purpose for which God placed her here on the earth.
Anyone interested in how men should treat women should go to SCRIPTURE and not some sexual fantasy philosophy.
Here’s a clue. What you get married, you are marrying a helpmeet, a wife. You are not buying an indentured servant.
She signed a MARRIAGE certificate, not a bill of sale.
And out come all the standard feminist boilerplate complaints, irrespective of the original post, or much of anything else, really.
Here's a clue. If a woman has had sex with multiple other men before getting married, her ability to bond to her husband uniquely, drops off precipitously. Her amount of likely baggage has exponentiated; and she'll have a much greater chance of always secretly pining for "the alpha that got away."
How on earth any of that translates to a "sexual fantasy philosophy" is beyond me: except that modern women like to pretend they can sleep around (say, on overseas trips or "it doesn't count because it was only a blow job") or whatever.