Some men like to wallow in their loserness.
Liberal victim worldview.
“Some men like to wallow in their loserness.”
True, but these losers have a point. The legal system is completely stacked against men, from assumed-rapist-in-college to divorce court to taking your guns and freedom on her word.
The smartest divorcee I knew was a friend. His wife was a shrew and she spawned two shewette daughters. She demanded sole custody and an unfair split of assets.
He immediately complied, put the child support payments in the custody of the Court, declined all visitation rights for the kids and moved away and is rather hard to find.
She would periodically try to cause him trouble, chiefly because she blew through all the money he left her in about a year, but could never be found for further milking — and apparently there is no legal obligation to be found if you cease to have custodial rights.
She’s no longer a member of the country club, but rather teaching a a public middle school. She was a real looker, but now looks rather fat and plain.
The boytoy she was screwing has moved on and her kids are losers.
He’s doing extremely well for himself in Costa Rica, or so I’ve heard.
Donald Trump won.
Ha ha, you got schlonged.
If you are still going nowhere years after your divorce then yes, you have an issue... however when you literally have everything that is important to you, and control over it undermined and destroyed.... don’t sit there and expect any real man to not have a hard time dealing with it.
The courts sadly are stacked toward the woman and the mother in family court, even though ever bit of evidence shows that children if they must live with only 1 parent do better in life when it is their father not their mother. Guys are not given a fair shake in court at all. Anything a woman claims is assumed to be gospel, and the guy really just has to take it.
My divorce was not horrifically ugly by divorce standards, but the entire process ensured that what could and should have been a sad but reasonably amicable situation was turned into a hateful, drawn out, bitter situations... for no reason at all.