Handle it? Why should a man need to handle marriage? Marriage and families is the default plan God has for people and if the state is messing it up people should find ways around it instead of abandoning future life.
OK, so any ideas as to how to find ways around the state?
I suppose you could find another country with better laws. That’s an option.
It might be the default plan is to live in a shelter and not out in the open. But if the shelter is on fire, perhaps best to stay away until it’s safe to enter, don’t you agree?