Mental illness is the issue
The American Psychiatric Association opened that Pandora’s Box when it declared homosexuality was not a mental illness.
And usually a result of horrible abuse as children - I know several homosexuals who eschew sex because they think it's a filthy way that they do such and who are in long term therapy. After talking at length and even carrying the Word for a while(most thought they were beyond salvation and that God would not love them) I got to hear some heartbreaking tales of childhood abuse. It changes the way one looks at them....
Is attention whoredom a mental illness?