The path I outlined is not in any sense legal under the rules of a nonprofit. It is basically stating that I, the president, unilaterally accept the resignation you did not have the decency to tender. Don’t like it, take it to court. It’s extreme, but depending upon what was done, it can work and can be sustained in court.
Would you mind commenting on the situation in light of post 269? That post seems to have more facts than anything else on this thread, and you seem to have a better grasp of what is legal/possible.