If you are hoping I will help you work out how to use a cheating site and not get caught, you will be sorely disappointed. This is a family Forum.
And the fact is, nothing is perfect. Your wife can put spy software on your computer that can track everything and is EXTREMELY hard to detect and shut down. So even if you’re doing things like using prepaid credit cards bought in cash from Wal-Mart, using Hotmail, and doing things on a laptop computer at Starbucks instead of your home internet, it may very well be for naught. Kiddie porn perveyors do this kind of stuff and still get busted all the time. The best approach is to just not do it. If you feel like you have-to/can’t-stop, go get some counseling.
Nope. You're talkin' at the wrong guy on that score. But I would like to be able to harass the left without giving away my true identity, so my car doesn't get vandalized or my house doesn't burn down!
I tended bar for over 30 years and had lots of opportunities to misbehave. But I know darn well (even if you are careful) you eventually get caught and managed to overcome the temptation. God has been better to me than I deserve.