*Yu can thank feminism and womens lib,for that. There is no upside for husband lovers when everything is stscked against them and divorce is soceasy to lose half,of evrythjng and be treated as both slave and criminal until kids are grown. Sometimes you even have to pay for kids that arent yours, its that bad.*
As a woman I completely agree with you. It’s not fair to make this about all men are pigs. I detest that mindset and it’s straight out of the women’s lib movement. I’m 43, and very old fashioned. My husband is and always has been a gentlemen. I like having doors opened for me, I don’t find that sexist, I find it refreshing. I have 2 boys and a girl, and my boys have been raised to treat women with respect, not just in word but by example by how their father treats me. And neither one of them will waste their time on a flussie or someone who doesn’t appreciate there belief in being a gentleman.
My daughter is 15, I tell her all the time If you don’t meet a boy that treats you as well as your brothers, don’t waist your time. Not to mention they are VERY protective of her, so whenever she is allowed to date, they will have to pass the 2 older brothers, father and mother test. It won’t be easy. But she has also been raised to behave like a lady. This girl won’t even wear a sleeveless shirt/ tank top around the house. She’s modest on her own, but she wouldn’t be allowed to dress like a tramp anyway.
I detest feminist. They have ruined it for us who like to be treated like ladies.
Remember the old saw "When men were men and women loved them"? That's been rendered non operative now by the left for decades, generations, now.
And i will state of course there are guys not worth being around as well, there are losers aplenty on both sides. However there is no upside at all for men to be married give how the system is today.