Sorry to be mean, but the female midshipman will be sought after as a general's/admiral's "aide".
I'm with you: the taxpayers are paying over $300K to educate academy cadets. I think we deserve better behavior for that investment.
I was no saint in college, but we didn't allow our female friends to be taken advantage of. But that was a long time ago.
I was no angel in college either, and I attended some pretty wild parties at air force bases. I never drank so much that I didn’t know what was going on or what I was doing, and no one ever tried to “take advantage” of me beyond what I would allow (which wasn’t much back in the ‘60s). The military can keep pushing that there are no differences between the men and women, so the unnatural result of that false assumption is what we see in this story.