Jesus words, which you so delight in repeating, came in response to people who threatened him with murder as a "God Damned Blasphemer".
Today such murderous intent is sometimes seen in those who accuse others of being "God Damned Heretics".
Your theological problem -- of maintaining the Unity of God along with the Divinity of Christ -- did not trouble the earliest Christians.
It only became an issue of life-or-death after the Council of Nicaea in 326 AD.
I suggest that since these are matters the whole truth of which are totally unknowable to us, we should not concern ourselves with them.
Sufficient for us should be John's words (20:30):
Your theological problem
***Your theological problem is that you’re a heretic. You can post, repost, and repost all you want as a reposting troll, but that garbage is still heresy.
Today such murderous intent is sometimes seen in those who accuse others of being “God Damned Heretics”.
***Jesus said false teachers such as yourself were MURDERERs.
Matthew 23 is one of the most serious passages in Scripture. Jesus here makes the word hypocrite a synonym for scribe and for Pharisee. He calls them sons of hell, blind guides, fools, robbers, self-indulgent, whitewashed tombs, full of hypocrisy and lawlessness, serpents, vipers, and persecutors and MURDERERS of Gods people. He uttered every syllable with absolute self-control but with devastating intensity.
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