My take on Day 1 was the BDLR would not wear well with the jury over time, but that MOM would. Almost 2 weeks later, I think that is even more true than I’d have expected.
MOM seems more even-tempered, almost as if he’s a kindergarten teacher, patient to explain, doesn’t get upset when testimony isn’t what he seems to want, just says “OK” and rephrases or recasts until he does get what he wants, and he is calm in dealing with kids(prosecutors)having little hissy fits. I didn’t expect to come away quite so impressed as I am.
He’s also quite good at the subtle needle. That “may I use your doll” remark, for example.