Of course it is what it is, as are all things...
I was trying to point out that in most cases of a slightly older female and a slighty under-age male, no charges should be brought, since in most men’s points of view (as demonstrated on this thread), it’s not really a problem, as opposed to if the genders were reversed.
Is that our standard? “Most men’s points of view?” That’s not my standard.
“Most men” can think a lot of things are ok. So what? They and be and often are wrong.