[Netizen]

If he had done this back when we were a young, struggling married couple, I would definitely have a problem with him giving money when we could ill afford it. I think that's the key here. The wealthy think and live differently than we. what appears to be a huge financial decision to us is but a drop in the bucket to them. Nothing more than tossing change in the Salvation Army kettle. JMO....

Exactly. There are some though that are being deliberately obtuse. Either that or they are tremendous control freaks in their real lives and I pity their spouses.

[1rudeboy]

You forgot one possibiltiy: they slip under-the-counter payments to random women, and fail to tell their wife.

[CAluvdubya]

agree! I see that the real sticking point with them is not telling his wife. They need to step outside of their own financial world and into the world of wealthy. It’s totally different!