Just more of the attempt to cover up for the guilt of killing babies, your own and others. It's similar to the alcoholic that pushes drinks on everyone in the room so that he's not the only one drunk, and it's normal to be so.
The abortion issue is 99.99% about trying to cover the guilt of those that have had abortions, and only tangentially about keeping the ability to "take care of" an irresponsible decision.
The remedy would be to tell people that have had abortions that they can absolve themselves as guilt for it if they work to prevent others from following in their footsteps. Trying to cover up one's guilt by encouraging others to get stuck in it won't work. It might ameliorate the pain for a little while, but the pain will always come back. Destroying the guilt by acknowledging the wrong of one's past actions and going beyond it will work, and it's the only approach that will.