I think that Helen really does not understand the situation. Modern women are more like worker bees in a beehive, and to be avoided so you do not risk getting stung. The best thing today's man can do is find a woman who espouses their biblical role. Maybe a woman from Australia, Russia, or Europe might be more in line with the kind of woman men want today, an old fashioned stay-at-home mom, or a working mother with her priorities in order -- God, family, country.