I’m reading through this thread, just amazed. I cannot understand couples who are so obsessed with having children that they take these desperate measures. My husband and I were very fortunate to have children together easily, without ever planning to. We devote our lives to our children.
But, if we had never been able to have children together the natural way, we would not have taken any extraordinary measures. We just would’ve accepted our lot, had careers, and earned a ton of money. The basis of marriage is procreation and continuing the family line, but not by any means necessary.
I know. I’d rather not have children than do something like this. I figure if I and my future spouse are unable to have children, we’ll have to save enough money to adopt a child or be foster parents.