I am bitter about it, yes. That tends to happen when the principles declared in our Constitution are undermined by judicial fiat and the judge's decision championed by people who claim to be "conservative." For one who accepts non-falsifiable renditions of history as "science" you really should not be lecturing me on "accepting reality."
You are going to have to try to get over that, or it will make you sick. The legal case isn't going to get any better for you.