I'm not avoiding it. It's certainly worth discussing and beneficial to understand the direction we're headed in. But if someone says, "yeah, this is the time", flee from that person like the plague. They're attempting to take from God what they are not entitled to. Pretty dangerous spiritual practice, if you ask me.
Jesus commanded that we be aware of the "signs", not to write books and make a ga-jillion dollars creating a cottage industry based on negligent exegesis.
The ironic thing is that for all of LaHaye's insistence on literalism, the word "rapture" doesn't appear ANYWHERE in the Bible.