"It's hardly a matter of legalism to call for a reality check"
You've attempted to change the arguement. Again, here you are stating that a reality check is your reality...namely that only YOU are able to define what a "serious Christian" is, or is not.
Awfully haughty of you. I certainly hope you're not in the ministry and stumbling the little ones. (ref. Strongs #3458)
...converstaion complete...
*claps dust off of sandals*
LOL! That might have been a credible comment if it were not followed by:
*claps dust off of sandals*
I'm haughty, apparently, but you're a humble self-appointed Apostle!