Yea, I agree. You can't please everyone, and I don't think people should try. What any one person thinks of you is always subject to change. And people have to have the maturity to understand that while they may be a perfectly good person, but that any given person they meet (and may be attracted to) might not respond to them well. That's life, that's what people say.
For example, when I first met the woman who would be my girlfriend for 1/2 of my law school tenure, I was happy as a clam, DESPITE the way she looked at me. :-)
Things worked out, though. I didn't hold the fact that she didn't care much for me when we first met against her. And she didn't let her first impression be an eternal obstacle, either.
It pays to be a bit mature about these things and take a chance, and be willing to fail.
Another young woman I was smitten with in law school didn't care for me that way at all. Shucks - some short term heartache for me - despite being widely regarded as a jerk by many people who know me, I'm a sensitive guy. But take a chance - sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.
That story has a great epilogue, though: I bumped into her about a year and a half ago here in Las Vegas. I almost didn't recognize her: she was having a weekend away in LV with the girls. Her taste in men wasn't good: she married, has children, and was now divorced. She was happy to see me, though...
Well I smiled, glanced her up and down, and for insight into my thoughts about her and a potential dalliance, just click
here. ;-)
Man, you are bad. I checked out the link you posted and, my oh my... that's sooo wrong, LOL!!
A response to your song, hehe.
click on it
Bitch With A Bad Attitude
If I should stay, I’d just be in the way,
So I’m gonna stay right here,
And I’m gonna make you pay.
I’m gonna call up the cops tell ‘em where you keep your stash
I’m gonna call up your momma tell her when you took her cash.
Gonna take the teeth I bought you, let you chew it with your gums
You wanted some excitement well, I’ve only just begun
What you’ve got baby, is a bitch with a bad attitude
I’m kicking ass and taking names
What you’ve got baby, is a bitch with a bad attitude
bad attitude, bad attitude.
I’m gonna call the IRS, tell you got zero dependents
I’ve been saving it for Oprah, gonna tell it with a vengeance
Get your Mastercard from your mistress, to pay for her psychic friend
Saffire: The Uppity Blues Women