I remember an old girlfriend had a similar story. She said she agreed to date this guy, and when he came by her apartment to pick her up, he said:
"Oh, my! You are not thinking of wearing THOSE shoes with THAT dress are you?!!"
I actually used that tactic to make sure that a very dissapointing blind date would have no further "ramifacations". (it worked)(the girl in question was rather desperate, had very little conversation-material except here desire to become a mother and was not put of by my boorish behaviour during our date)