I have an idea. Let's compile a list of what we here consider to be real men (with their qualifications). There must be some common traits. We can develop a Real Man Qualities Checklist that you can keep handy for screening potential dates. Screening out the rejects beforehand, might increase your odds and lead to satisfaction.
Actually, I'm the one that's rejected before there is a potential date. So there's no need for me to do the screening.