We slay the fatted calf.
This pastor is not closing the door on anyone. He is asking those standing there on the threshold if they intend to come in or not.
SD
I like that analogy. I think we're talking about the same thing. I was getting the impression that some were suggesting the door be slammed shut, but then I read more of the posts. I agree. I think the pastor is inviting those on the threshold to come in and participate fully. It's a tough spot, it is debated every year within our ccd system. There are some tough egos out there who think doors are being slammed on them and they can customize rules to fit their whims (not even their needs). Those parents/folks do need a wake up call. I don't know what the short answer is.