The point is that while Ms. Holloway's disapearance is tragic, it is a statistical anomoly....and at some point, these "kids" fly away from the coop. Indeed, I would guess that the avg age of our fighting foces in Iraq is not too far removed from Ms. Holloway's age.
That's funny. I forgot, but I took a trip like that too when I was 14.
I know most of these kids were probably going to go off to college, etc. I know all the arguments about possible danger at home. None of that excuses the fact that these kids should not have been allowed to go out at 1 A.M. with no chaperones, to a bar, and get drunk.
As for our troops - they are trained, armed, protected. They are not unaware of danger, nor are they running around in the middle of the night drinking. They are with others with whom they have a bond -- to make sure all return safely and foolishness is not unobserved and corrected.