You've said nothing new here. Not worth flaming.
However, I will simply responde to one statement, "her parents dragging this through every court they can find."
Most of us would do no less for our child.
SHE willingly gave him the legal and moral right to speak for her in this situation by marrying him. She has to live with the consequences of that decision. No one, even the parents have the right to come between that.
Unless it can be established legally that he should loose that right, it's his decision. The courts have not found reason to do so.
The parents are way out of line here.