Maybe, but it's not for the self-righteous to judge the lady in question. And that DID take place, even if the exact phrase "damned to hell" didn't occur.
That's between her and God........
It's not about being self-righteous. It's about being in line with what the Bible says.
There's nothing wrong with looking at an issue and saying, "I think that's right/wrong based on God's Word." In fact, as Christians we're supposed to be doing that. The most interesting discussions are about concepts, not people. I think that's the case on this thread as well as the other one on divorce.