[Slyfox]

Surely the boys are old enough to move to their dad's place without an okay from a judge.

[stopem]

Both Mom and Dad are using those kids for revenge and money.

[solitas]

Surely the boys are old enough to move to their dad's place without an okay from a judge.

And this might give her the necessary scenario to have her exclude them fron her Will. They're not that stupid - greed works both ways.

[GVnana]

Not necessarily. They should abide by court orders. And Dad would still be under an order to pay.