I think "standing up for values" TRUMPS "being nice." But it is not impossible to do both. From reading your posts on this thread, it seems to me that you want to end the right of anyone to have their own opinions on these matters. Nothing is more offensive than to take a persons CHILD and teach them that perverted behaviors are fine and should be respected. You can say you do not care if they think they are "fine" all you want. This video and curriculum is aimed at teaching the kids that it is fine, and that anything else is bigotry.
What part of "I don't care whether or not you think same-sex sex is okay" was unclear on my position on your right to have a different opinion? You have the right to your opinion on whether or not homosexuality or drug use is okay. What you don't have is the ethical right to mistreat or disrespect people just because they are different from you.
BTTT