"Well, if you have priorities in life that would seriously conflict with having children, I would have to say that it's probably best to not have them."
I agree.
"It's not nearly as disruptive as they think it is...unless you are a complete party animal."
As a mother, I'd have to disagree with that. Having children is disruptive and in my case, I'd say that is good. Once my son was born, friends and parties were forced to the back of the line. Suddenly, my life and the life of my husband were no longer about us....it was about our son and doing right by him. It's a huge undertaking when having kids and most don't realize that until they have kids of there own.
I suppose you are right. I guess I just don't think of kids as a disruption, per se. It's just a shift.
Or chaos, perhaps. :) LOL