The thought police have arrived.
You can have any thought you'd like - just don't expect the rest of us to refrain from pointing out the fact that's it's rather disturbed.
Thought police? - I am only responding to the twisted frap you have actually ~said~ here. You are the one who is actually telling us what you have interpreted of a grieving man's ~thoughts~. You've mapped out a whole thesis on his evil thoughts and motives from a couple fairly benign sentences in his words to his family. They laughed real laughter at the ear lobe story. You think it meant something weird. It meant something nice and funny and affectionate to the ones that really know.