[Migraine]

Don't even dabble in that. That's a great way to insure that more of your people get kidnapped. It would become an overnight cottage industry.
Here's a hostage exchange I want to try. You ragtime cowboys will either release civilians unharmed and treat combatants according to the Geneva Convention, or lose your mosque as it will be vaporized. You've got to fight fire with fire, terror with terror, hostage-taking with hostage-taking.

[Eurotwit]

I agree with both of you.

That said, being a family member it must be a lot harder to be principled.