You posted an unsupportable absolute statement. I replied with an unlikely, but possible, situation in which your ideas are really stupid. Assault with a deadly weapon and armed robbery are as much violent crimes when committed by Bonnie as when committed by Clyde. Bonnie deserves no more consideration during her crimes than Clyde (or after, for that matter), the extra "X" chromosome notwithstanding.
In other words, they both deserve two in the chest and one in the head.
Deal with it.
And consider what sort of creature inhabits womens' prisons. That should clarify the matter somewhat.
Now if you'd said "Any man who strikes a lady is not a man", I'd agree with you. There is a difference.
Go ahead, Mr. Toad, and puff yourself up and bloviate. It should be amusing...