[Jason Kauppinen]

Ok, I've been lurking here a bit... and I've been wondering: What's the difference between being confident and just being a puffed up jerk?

[weikel]

Most women can't tell and thats why so many go out with a*******/losers.

[Paul C. Jesup]

It all depends on how well you handle a hit to your pride.

[Canticle_of_Deborah]

A puffed up jerk is constantly trying to prove himself. A confident man knows he doesn't have to.