Most of us do not include the Brits (readers and fans of the Guardian excepted) among the "Euro-weenies."
As for your implication that "we deserved it," such vitrol is on the same level of those who said the Brits deserved being bombed for being the only country to stand against Hitler for nearly the year after the fall of France.
When we start seeing a few more Europeans realize we are fighting their battle too and a few less crying about our tratment of the detainees in Gitmo, you will see a lot fewer references to "Euro-weenies" by Americans, 3/4th of whom still have blood ties to Europe.