PORN
Women also have porn issues. For women, it's trashy romance novels, and fantasies of aristocrats and wealthy handsome billionaires (note the popularity of the "50 Shades of Grey" series) swooning over them.
Women's porn creates issues with women in the 50th percentile thinking that guys in the 90+ percentile of desirability will marry them. The ultra-desirable guys may date them (in exchange for no-strings sex on evenings when a more-desirable girl is unavailable), but outside such booty calls there is little interest.
Meanwhile the average woman will ignore the good men around them.