That’s why I go to an Independent Fundamental Baptist church. IFB churches are run by men.
And Heaven help the woman who tries to get one of the old time IFB preachers to give an inch on the “Fundamentals”. We are also IFB and my oldest, 19 year old daughter, had a run in with a preacher who had been divorced and stayed the preacher. His “new” wife and my daughter had “words” while I was not in ear shot.