If there is any word that is abused it is love. We say that God is love. Indeed, and we trust like the poet that he is the hound of heaven who keeps coming after us until we finally choose to jump over that cliff into the waiting arms of Satan. But the lesson of Job is how hard it is to realize what that means. In the end , after God has revealed himself to Job, Jobs just says, yes, Lord, I understand. Despite all that has happened to me, I accept that you do love me. In spite of all, I put my trust in you. You owe nothing to me, all I have comes from you. That is hard. hard, hard to realize that the God who takes everything you have is, in the end, a just God. I think the message of the gay rights movement is exactly the opposite.
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