That's exactly what I concentrated and posted on for years here at FR and other places, yet some are simply not interested or too dense to understand what is being said.
In other forums I've been asking anybody and everybody to provide a link to a study supporting the born-that-way theory and for the most part I get no takers. Every once in a while somebody will post a link to a study they think supports their position but it's obvious they didn't understand the study, they didn't read the study or somebody else told them the study supported the born- that-way theory.
We have a nation of people who can't think for themselves.
There may be .01% of cases where they truly are “born that way”, like any genetic defect.
But in most cases, it’s learned or acquired, especially in cases where they are molested as children.
And by way of this, there’ve been counter-arguments to my own “homosexuality does not occur in nature” one. Namely, yes it does, there are documented cases. Granted. But as a counter-counter-argument, those are mostly due to animals in captivity. Is captivity a natural environment? Don’t think so. Also, there are no “documented cases” of animals preferring their own sex instead of the opposite one. And if it’s natural, why is human homosexuality so very much higher, statistically, than the supposed cases with animals? Any counter-counter-counter-arguments? Unlikely.
DNA hell. I have ran across plenty of lesbians that were married for years and had a household full of kids. With absolutely nothing wrong with her sex life. All the sudden she turns 50 and starts going to the bars with her girlfriends, gets drunk one night and ends up in the sack with another gal. Comes out a couple of months later and tells her husband of 30 years she’s really a lesbian and wants a divorce, but it really had nothing do with him, blah, blah, blah.
Homosexuality a chosen lifestyle. When this gal I just mentioned gets tired of her “girlfriend” and a few more flings with other dykes, she goes back to her husband, if he will let her in the door. It’s all about sex, sex, sex.
Love has nothing to do with it. Many lesbians are in threesome relationships, or foursomes, or as damn many as they can get in the bed without it breaking down.