Wow! Did I post something in which it implied I was passing judgment on you? I don't think so. If I did, please shoot me a note with my quote. Here is the best answer I can give you from John chapter 3:
8 The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit.
Huh? Where did I suggest that you were passing judgment on me? Re-read my reply and replace the word ‘you’ with the word ‘one’.