How do the guys hide the payments for the exhorbitant fees from their wives? From a forensic accounting perspective, that appears to be a fatal flaw in the concept of “secrecy”. After all, it can’t be a cash transaction - there has to be a financial trail created. Even if the cheating husband retains total access and control to all credit card records, it’s all discoverable in litigation.
A man would have to be either totally ignorant, crazy or just that hard-up enough to willingly place such a noose of culpability around his own neck. Makes no sense to me.
They ain’t thinking with their brains
Here’s something that most folks don’t know. Fidelity rarely figures into a divorce. You don’t get more stuff because your spouse was unfaithful, and they don’t get more of your stuff if you were unfaithful. If custody isn’t disputed, you don’t even have to physically appear in court most states. Everything else is done by the numbers.