Other than someone who has no choice but to be gay, such as Elana Kagen (search to see photo to find out why), most women who become gay just do it for fun...they really don’t care who they wind up with. And, in a lot of cases, it’s a political statement - that men are simply not needed in their lives.
Whereas most gay guys are simply sick.
I’ve known her for many years and on a few occasions met her “personal assistant”. It never donned on me that she was a homosexual even though i guessed her assistant was. I was shocked when I learned of her being gay about ten years ago. But after a little retrospect I felt silly thinking she was straight. She is truly a wonderful person and I pray the best for her. I have dreaded the day when she would return to music as the lesbian prodigal. She will only mislead alot of confused young people.