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The Jewel of Celibacy
CatholicCulture.org ^ | Octoboer 23, 2009 | Dr. Jeff Mirus,

Posted on 10/25/2009 4:31:29 PM PDT by Salvation

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The first issue is whether those who want the Church to change the law of celibacy will use the occasion to increase their pressure.

The second issue is whether the Church’s “celibacy morale”, so painstakingly rebuilt over the past twenty years, will be lowered once again. Will the faithful become even more confused about celibacy? Will some Roman Rite priests think it “hard” that no special provision is made for them to marry? Will some potential future priests begin to hope once again for a relaxation of the celibacy requirement?

1 posted on 10/25/2009 4:31:30 PM PDT by Salvation
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To: nickcarraway; Lady In Blue; NYer; ELS; Pyro7480; livius; Catholicguy; RobbyS; markomalley; ...

**it is important to state the plain truth that celibacy is the preferred state for a priest of any rite. This is eloquently attested even in the Eastern Catholic churches by the fact that a priest cannot marry after he has been ordained, and that bishops cannot be married at all. **

Food for discussion.


2 posted on 10/25/2009 4:32:31 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: Kolokotronis

For your list.


3 posted on 10/25/2009 4:33:27 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: Salvation

excellent post.


4 posted on 10/25/2009 4:35:47 PM PDT by wombtotomb
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5 posted on 10/25/2009 4:36:11 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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Orthodox/Catholic ping.

Although mnastic celibacy is the crown jewel of The Church, celibates, in my opinion, belong in monasteries.


6 posted on 10/25/2009 4:39:10 PM PDT by Kolokotronis (Christ is Risen, and you, o death, are annihilated!)
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To: Salvation
The solution would seem to be to abolish the formal hierarchical type priesthood and replace it with a more general priesthood of all believers that would include the married and unmarried.

That way the doctrine of celibacy is not disturbed and those who worship it may continue undistrubed.

In the meantime the Catholic church in America might well survive and thrive.

Guys, you can't make it doing little more than picking up a few Anglicans here and there. The people hunger.

Not that I'm proselytizing here ~ just giving advice ~

7 posted on 10/25/2009 4:43:38 PM PDT by muawiyah
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To: Salvation

An observation here, based on the matrimonial aspect in the article. I have posted an article I wrote on this topic below. I think one of the greatest issues in the modern day church on this issue is due to the fact that no one understands exactly WHAT matrimony IS, therefore they do not understand why it impedes a man in his vocation to the priesthood. The article attempts to explain the marriage covenant. My apologies if this post is long...

Falling in love. One of Gods most wonderful gifts, and lifes most incredible pleasures. That moment when you realize, this is THE one. Your heart skips a beat every time you see him, and you cannot believe he feels the same way as you. Wedding bells toll, and so begins the first day of your new life.

Marriage is an incredible gift. It is horrifying that over half of the people who enter into it, including Catholics, leave when it gets tough. While I know that there are cases where seperating or even divorcing may be necessary, it is absolutely and without question a very low number; the same kind of numbers we are talking about for getting an abortion in the case of the mothers life being in grave danger - extremely low.

The reason for this astronomical divorce rate is tied to the same mentality as the astronomical abortion rate - the lack of understanding the sacredness of life, and by extension, marriage. The change that occurs when a couple stands before God and declares their consent to be joined together is an unbreakable covenant, no matter the difficulty.

The change that occurs at the altar is no less profound than the one that occurs on the altar. There is a complete and total giving of self to the spouse. In Gods eyes, and the Churches, I am no longer me, but us. My husband is no longer him, but us. The two have become so completely one that we are indistiguishable as an individual.

The mystery of the covenant of marriage is mirrored in the mystery of Transubstantiation. The bread BECOMES the body, blood, soul, and divinity of Christ. It is not a symbol. It is not a bunch of words the priest says and then we hope God accepts the gifts of bread and wine as His Son; it is the complete, total, and absolute change from bread and wine to the Eucharist that occurs, same as when 2 people stand at the altar. The accidents of bread and wine are still present after the consecration, same as our married bodies are. This does not, however, diminish that which took place; we are one flesh!

With this view, the very way God sees us after marriage, divorce becomes an absurdity. The only thing you get when you divide one is half of one. You cannot be complete outside your vows. You lack that which made you whole. You cannot unring this bell.

To drive home this point even further, God in His infinite wisdom, designed us to participate with Him in our married love to bring forth life. The married state can be looked upon in design as a model of our Triune God. Two become one, and from that union as one, the family grows to become 3, or more! God speaks to us about His love, through the joining of the 2 who became one. The love you feel for your spouse in your most intimate moments is about as close as our human hearts can get to Christs love for His Bride, the Fathers perfect love for the Son, and by extension, His adopted children - all of us. God wanted us to know life giving love, and what better way than to make love life giving!

Sadly - love, commitment, and marriage have been divorced from sex in our culture. We find all kinds of ways to remove the life-giving aspect from love, and therefore, remove God from marriage. The end is predictable; contraception, infidelity, divorce, abortion, spousal abuse, pornography, the list goes on and on. Each time we make love to our spouse, we are renewing the covenant we made on that day. By removing God and His Will , we are reduced to having sex steered only by our fallen nature, and our covenant is weakened and eventually destroyed. We “fall out of love” with our spouse and start seeking that which we think will fill us with happiness again.

Jesus had some specific things to say about divorce when He was questioned on it. He told us that divorce was never in Gods plan, but OUR hardness of heart made it necessary for Moses to allow. He said that whatever God joined together, man could not divide. He said that a man should leave his mother and father and cleave unto his wife, as the two were now one flesh. That we have forgotten this is evidenced by all the divorce and “shacking up” going on today.

The Church is the Bride of Christ. He refers to our entrance into Heaven as coming to the marriage supper of the Lamb. He refers to Himself as the Bridegroom. We must, as a Church, begin to take our vows and marriage covenant deadly serious; it is apparent all through Scripture that Christ uses marriage as an analogy to our relationship with Him. I can only pray that His view of the marriage covenant is not what we have allowed ours to become.


8 posted on 10/25/2009 4:46:30 PM PDT by wombtotomb
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To: Salvation

How dare the Hierarchy create such an open Hypocracy and expect the morale of Catholic Priests to remain high.

In order to lead people in any work situation, the rules must be equal and fair through out the work environment or anger and Chaos will prevail.

I’ve spent my life leading men and such a prospect like this is intolerable.

These Guys in the Vatican are Nuts.


9 posted on 10/25/2009 4:50:40 PM PDT by chatham
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To: Salvation

To be honest, I have mixed feelings about this.

Unfortunately, we live in a sex saturated society and I think we have lost a lot of good people who have fallen prey to that culture. I am also afraid this attracts a lot of homosexuals and pedophiles to the priesthood as we have witnessed in the news lately.

I think celibacy is a virtue, but I really despair more and more every day that it is realistic anymore.

Just saying..please don’t stone me for being honest.


10 posted on 10/25/2009 5:04:23 PM PDT by Infidel Heather (In God I trust, not the Government.)
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To: Salvation

Since “celibate” really means “Not married” (not “doesn’t have sex”) this is a totally non-sensical thing.

In addition, it was my understanding that Anglicans who came to the RC church were allowed to stay married, and (presumably) fulfilled their vows of physical relations, a vow made very explicitly in the RC vows. What changed?


11 posted on 10/25/2009 5:24:13 PM PDT by TWohlford
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To: Kolokotronis
celibates, in my opinion, belong in monasteries.

You won't mind if I remain at large, and celibate. I'm not even Catholic.

/johnny

12 posted on 10/25/2009 5:33:08 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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To: Salvation
I am not one to want to change my Church lightly. I still miss the Latin Mass and some other aspects of Church tradition but I'm wavering on how I feel about this. I don't know how many priests are at your parishes but at mine we have one. He is spread pretty thin and cannot as hard as he tries be in two places at once. Deacons and other laity now distribute communion something that I never saw as a child but is common today, they also give the marriage and baptism courses required. These are things the priests use to do. We have a real shortage of priests and if being allowed to marry might attract a man of faith to the priesthood than maybe it's not a bad idea.
13 posted on 10/25/2009 5:44:40 PM PDT by mimaw
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To: mimaw

I agree with you 100%.

I have also been told this is not a dogma of the Church and priests and popes were married up till sometime in the Middle Ages. (Feel free to correct me if I’m wrong.)


14 posted on 10/25/2009 5:57:44 PM PDT by Infidel Heather (In God I trust, not the Government.)
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To: Kolokotronis

Celibacy is a gift of neo-platonism, not Scripture.


15 posted on 10/25/2009 5:58:22 PM PDT by LiteKeeper (When do the impeachment proceedings begin?)
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To: mimaw

I do hear of parishes like yours, on occasion. I must be either very out of the loop or this is not the norm. I have attended churches in the following places as a parishoner

New Jersey
South Carolina
Florida
and as a visitor in
Delaware
Tennessee

In all of the parishes I have attended, there have been at the very least, 3 priests at each, with 2-5 deacons per church. The one I am at now, there is a Pastor, plus a full time priest, a retired priest who does Mass on occasion AND a priest who has no parish right now so our pastor is allowing him to stay at the rectory and do masses for a stipend. We also have a full time deacon. There are 5 other catholic churches in the area (within 30 minutes of my home) and all of them have at least 3 priests as well. Our seminary is graduating 17 more this spring, with full classes each year after (my son will be entering seminary next fall).

Fear not, vocations in traditional seminarys and convents are way up, many have waiting lists. My theory is that some of the more liberal orders, seminaries, and dioceses may be suffering a shortage, but as the old ones die off or are retired, there is a young, traditionalist, vibrant bunch just waiting to fufill their call.


16 posted on 10/25/2009 6:02:48 PM PDT by wombtotomb
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To: JRandomFreeper

Even if I werent Catholic I would choose to remain celebate/single.

It is a liberating lifestyle choice. IMO.

I still enjoy the sight of handsome men. That will never change. ( I am female before anyone reading this gets the wrong idea)


17 posted on 10/25/2009 6:06:47 PM PDT by Global2010 (Strange We Can Believe In)
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To: muawiyah

**The solution would seem to be to abolish the formal hierarchical type priesthood and replace it with a more general priesthood of all believers that would include the married and unmarried.**

This is already true for all of us at our baptism, ism’t it?


18 posted on 10/25/2009 6:08:13 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: wombtotomb
I hope your right but when my father took a turn for the worse we were not able to get the last rites performed before he died as our priest was giving them at a nursing home. Some of our parishes have at least two priests and laity but there is not an over abundance of priests here.
19 posted on 10/25/2009 6:09:29 PM PDT by mimaw
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To: wombtotomb

**The Church is the Bride of Christ. He refers to our entrance into Heaven as coming to the marriage supper of the Lamb. He refers to Himself as the Bridegroom. **

Our icon is entitled St. Edward and the Heavenly Bridegroom.


20 posted on 10/25/2009 6:09:47 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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