Well I’m not a Catholic and really don’t care how they run their church. But I have been asked several times tio join the Catholic Church and it’s things like this that make it impossible for me to do.
But I know a lot of Catholics, matter of fact my daughter and her kids are.
Well ... this is personal and I'll tread lightly.
It seems to me that your presence on this thread suggests that you do care. A little, anyway. And your statement in #51 is precisely an expression of having been "given scandal" ... in this case, by the administration of ND. A quick letter to the Bishop or phone call to the chancery would not be out of line.
Don’t worry about it. The door is always open and the light is warm.